Saturday, June 20, 2009

KL Convention Training with DTM Dunstan

The Genting Convention is coming up pretty soon, and I signed myself up as part of the Organising Committee. I feel like I’m too free nowadays, that all my free hours are spent mostly on either attending toastmaster meeting or doing my planning work for toastmasters.

So, yes, I dreaded the fact that I had to wake up real early on a Saturday afternoon, and that is to attend a training session with 50 other strangers. But hey, in the spirit of toastmasters, the time spent would surely be categorized as time enriching.

Besides, the opportunity to meet countless great speakers as well as some of the very legend of District 51 is indeed investment worth making. And then again, DTM Dunstan is one of those you’d be glad you spent the Saturday afternoon with indeed.

This would definitely be start to a wonderful team effort for the Genting Convention.

And hey, if you haven’t got a ticket yet, grab it quick!

Friday, June 19, 2009

Meeting #25 Best Speech - 'Seringgit'


Speech Title: Seringgit
Speaker: Suhana Sidik, CC


Any of these sights looks familiar? What about the certificate bearing the Jabatan Kebajikan masyarakat logo? Have anyone approached you with these certs as a supporting document?

What I like most about my country Malaysia and what I must be proud the most about being Malaysian is the fact that we may be skimpy on paying the tolls, parking ticket, that extra tips to the waitresses or some (ehem) even resort to stealing the papers and magazines from the office, but we always have the extra seringgit to give away (show money).

But why do we do it?

If you ask any girls in the room, our answer may be too simple. It is what we call ‘Right at Your Face’ syndrome. We are just a fragile creature with a generous soul. We can’t bear the sight of a blind pakcik, or kids in shabby clothing or those poor souls who lost an arm or leg. It just melts our heart away. Besides, we spend more than 1 ringgit to buy chocolates anyway, so why not do something good with it?

But what’s the excuse with guys?
Wait. Have you noticed that beggars don’t normally go and approach a group of boys, especially the smokers type. These people would rather save that 1 ringgit on 2 more cigarettes than actually give you any money. But that is not the case if you approach a group of guys with a pretty lady in the group. Ok, beggar alert from 50 m away. You know boys tend to be competitive right? Out they compete to see who can reach out fastest to their wallet in the hope that she would go ahh at the sight of your kind generosity to help the disadvantage. Ladies trust me, some boys are just a show off!

And there are just tonnes of reason why I think Malaysian is a generous bunch!

So yes, we are trying hard to eliminate the so called ‘Poor-Index’. In our heart, everyone wants to try and be a super hero. So yeah, if we don’t have Hiro Nakamura’s power, let’s reach into the wallet and be our very own modern Robin Hood. We steal from our very own pocket in order to give other people what we think they deserve.

But let me tell you here that it doesn’t work that way.

The beggars that you see here in Malaysia is no ordinary beggar. Instead, they are intelligent beggars or what I would call ‘intgar’. These ‘intgar’ would offer you tissues, stickers and tonnes of other things in exchange for your seringgit. And why do you have to give in to their demand at all times?

Do you notice that the more you give, the list of ‘intgar’ multiplies rapidly. Have you noticed that if you have lunch in Wisma Central for example, within that 1 hour, there would be 2 ‘intgars’ coming to your group screaming for seringgit. Sometime, you would ease your way reaching into your wallet and at times, you would nod and shooh them away. And here I am, recommending that ALL of you present here to do the latter.

Nowadays with the many ‘intgar’ in Malaysia, how do you differentiate between an ordinary beggar with disadvantage, with another intelligent beggar?
And if you are really a generous bunch, why don’t you go through the proper channel? That would probably be a more tax effective way of donating your money away.

Have you ever imagine the irony of these ‘intgar’ and their guide. Their so-called job of an ‘intgar’ is to beg for money, and the guide is to bring these ‘intgar’ around from tables to tables. Look at the condition of the guide. These guides are those perfectly normal human being much like you, with two perfectly working eyes, hands, legs and at times, they look more healthy than you are. Yet, they are working for another lesser capable human being, the pakcik buta as the boss. Just imagine how much the blind pakcik or makcik is earning to be able to pay for the guide, and still make enough money to support his/her own lifestyle.

And for lifestyle, I do mean A LIFESTYLE. Some is capable enough to earn thousand of ringgit to even afford a Honda Civic to drive home everyday. Some would walk with a limp using their cane to Hartamas, and leave away with a brand new Honda Civic everynight with their leg suddenly perfectly healed (yes, true story seen with this very own eyes). Well, that’s how seringgit help improve their lifestyle ... by a mountain.

Imagine this. Seringgit in 2 minutes per table equal to thirty ringgit in one hour. You beg for five hours a day and you get 150 ringgit per day. Multiply that with 20 working days and you get 3K per month, and that is just the basic so called ‘salary’. And you’ve never accounted for the extra overtime, and multiple seringgit per table and etc2. It does sound tempting actually, a probable business venture.

But let’s inject common sense into it.

Please don’t fall into the seringgit scheme, which is much like a Ponzi scheme. Use the legal channel to donate away your money. Seringgit, though maybe small to you may accumulate to a lot more if there are even 10% of the people in this room are guilty of donating their money away. Do not support this seringgit business. Say No to these Intgar.

So L&G, now, what do you do if the ‘intgar’ come and approach you? :p

Friday, June 12, 2009

District Officer Training (DOT) – June 12, 2009


What a better way to spend Friday night than with fellow toastmasters.
And what better gift to compliment that than looking at your perfectly spelt name tag lying on the table, awaiting for us to claim possession.
It was a great start to our toastmaster journey of as we take office cum 1 July 2009.

The District Officer’s Training concluded last Friday was a great success with about 50 Area Governors, Division Governors and Senior District Officers attending the session which was held in MAS Training Centre in Kelana Jaya.

The training kicked off with the opening speech given by DG Joseph Gomez, DTM. Joe, as some calls him, was the epitome of the typical modest leader. He started off his speech asking the governors to begin the journey strong and maintaining that momentum to make an impact up until the end of the tenure. Governors were also asked to enjoy the fantastic next 12 months journey and assist the current team to finish strong towards the end.

The DG-elect, Ritchie Chong, ACG, ALS then briefly talked about the incoming President, Gary Schmidt, DTM and the new motto for the year, ‘Confidence, Leadership, Service’. He then continues on to present the topic of ‘Achieving Success Standard’. Sharing from his previous personal experience as an Area Governor, he mentioned how the experience was a challenging but very fulfilling moment for him, and ensured us that it will be a journey that we will enjoy.

The LGET-elect was up next presenting the topic of ‘Building a Successful Team’. He went to explain that a super team must be mission-focused, service-oriented, know the goals, dedicated to quality, committed to overcoming barriers to success, visible and accessible and most importantly, have the quality to exudes energy, excitement and commitment. He even shared his personal experience of failing in his bid for the position of Area Governor, but determined to try again and successfully securing the job a year after. To him, the right determination complimented with a strong steam will indeed make the challenges ahead be a great journey all together.

Francis, DTM who gave one of the most powerful speech during the last convention to eventually earn his post as the LGM was the next speaker; sharing his passion in ensuring every club is a great club. In his presentation of ‘Maintaining Strong Clubs’, he shared the 4 key factors also as known as CARE (C-CCs, A –ACs, R-Retention of members, E-Extension of clubs) for toastmasters, and with his previous credentials of Area Governor of the Year and Division Governor of the Year, he was indeed one of the most committed toastmaster around.

We were swept away with the next presentation given by Leann, DTM with the topic ‘Building New Clubs’. She even gave away tips on the quest of prospecting new clubs. She mentioned that one must be able to do their very own research on current clubs, target a community with more than 10’000 people, pursue a major corporation with more than 150’000 employees and even use up any possible leads that they could gain. It was indeed a great inspiration to all of us listening to this very first TLI chair, who even shared with us her passion of speaking when she said, ‘Each time I speak, I learn something’. I think it was mutual.

Ramdas, DTM may have taken 10 years to complete his CTM, but the years were all well spent. We were all ears when he took us through the last topic of the evening, ‘Conducting Quality Contest’. With his vast years of experience serving as Chief Judge in many contests before, he shared his many encounters with problem contestants and even provided the many scenarios to test us (which we ace!). He even sound like one of the ones who actually memorize the Contest Rule Book from cover to cover! Well done!

The event may have well wrapped up at about 11 pm, but it was indeed a commendable session organized by the Senior District Council.

What’s more interesting was the fact that all the presenters talked about the Toastmasters mission, which is to enhance the performance AND extend the network of clubs. Even DTM Leann relates it to the story of Alice in The Wonderland. When Alice was lost and asked the white rabbit for direction, the only reply she got was ‘Any road is fine if you don’t have a direction to go’. See, how true it is coming from a ‘white rabbit’? So, start memorizing your mission and make it your toastmaster statement!

15 Division Governors.
79 Area Governors.
‘Confidence, Leadership, Service’.
Together we make it happen!

P Div & Area Governors (From left: Hakim, Sabariah, Suhana, Choi San, Dr Caren)

Reported by:
Suhana Sidik
AG P4 Elect 2009/2010
13/6/09

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Installation Event - DDYPC/ITC Bintang/TMIKL/MID/TTDI/IEM

Come and join our exciting event!!!


Date: 28 June 09

Time: 12 pm - 3 pm

Venue: Restoran Nelayan, Tasik Titiwangsa

Cost: ONLY RM40/person

RSVP your attendance today

Thursday, June 4, 2009

2009/2010 CLUB OFFICERS

Dear all,
I am proud to announce the line-up for our Area P4 office bearers for the respective clubs as follows:

ITC BINTANG
Meeting days : 7:00 pm, 1st & 3rd Wednesday
Meeting Venue : Federal Hotel, 2nd floor, Jalan Bukit Bintang, Kuala Lumpur, WP, 55300, Malaysia

PRES: Victor Lee, CC, CL
VPE: Penny Chin, TM
VPM: Robin Yap, CC
VPPR: Jeffrey Teh, CC, CL
SEC: Christina Lim, TM
TRS: TBA
SAA: Evonne Chong, TM
IPP: Melvin Tham, CC, CL


TMIKL TOASTMASTERS CLUB
Meeting days :7:30 p.m., 2nd & 4th Tuesday
Meeting Venue : 21st Floor Amoda Building Jalan Imbi, Kuala Lumpur, WP, 55100, Malaysia
PRES: Mas Rizal bin Abd Rahim
VPE: Elizabeth Xavier
VPM: Nik Mohamed Zaki
VPPR: Sidney Leong Sheng Ng
SEC: Emily Tan
TRS: Tan Teong Boon
SAA: Teng Louis Gan
IPP: Cyril Jonas


DDYPC TOASTMASTERS CLUB
Meeting days : 12:00 pm, 1st & 3rd Thursday
Meeting Venue: Level 40 Tower 1 Petronas Twin TowersKuala Lumpur City Centre, Kuala Lumpur, WP, 50088, Malaysia

PRES: Stefanie Khaw
VPE: Tunku Indra B. Tunku A. Muthalib
VPM: Ivan Lai Hung Pei
VPPR: Azlan B. Mohaideen
SEC: M. Muaz B. Azman
TRS: Khairul Fadhli Kassim
SAA: Mardhiyah Mohd Bakir
IPP: Azlan B. Mohaideen


MID TOASTMASTERS CLUB
Meeting days : 2:00 pm, 1st & 3rd Thursday
Meeting Venue : 12th Floor, Wisma Sime Darby, Jalan Raja Laut, Kuala Lumpur

PRES: Izaitul Farah Ibrahim
VPE: Wan Hakimah bt Abd Rahim
VPM: Normaizatul Akmal bt Tujad
VPPR: Farizah Inting
SEC: Norhazlinawati Mat
TRS: Leelakumari Vennayagam
SAA: Mohd Fadzil Azma b Mat Saad
IPP: Selvarani Siniah

Congratulations all. Looking forward to work with all of you!